Fighting with Friends.

Have you ever fought with you friends.

Or sat and watched two of your friends fight??

I have and its awful I hate it because you feel like you have to choose sides and that is one of the worst feelings ever. I never want anyone to feel like that. Its almost as bad as divorce when your parents get divorced you feel like you need to choose a side...is mom or dad right who do you live with...its hard..not only for the parents but for the children.

Okay, so i HATE fighting it makes me feel AWFUL.

When my friends fight i don't know who to agree with because the one you thought you would go with until they fight with someone that you are really close friends with then you have to re think the whole thing and the thing is when people get mad and start yelling or whatever they say things that they maybe wouldn't have if they weren't mad but then you feel like you don't even know them at all. Which do you go with the one that you feel got attacked...that's what i feel like i should do.

In fact that's what i do.

No one wants or deserves to be attacked the way some people attack them.

What is wrong with the world????

I cant tell you what to do if you are ever put in this situation all i can say is listen to your heart.

I promise if you have good intentions and you really don't know what to do just do what you feel is best.
Listen to both sides and then decide who you think is right but only if your friends involve you NEVER get in the middle of a fight unless there is NO POSSIBLE way for you to not be in the middle.

Well, i guess the moral of this post is well up to you but what i was going for was

DON'T PICK SIDES.

But do what you feel is the best for you and your Friends.

And if after a fight you feel like you don't even know that person then maybe you shouldn't be friends especially because they said somethings that made you uncomfortable.

If someone wants to judge you..let them but don't give into their kiddish play. 

"Sometimes I regret being nice,

apologizing when I didn't do anything wrong and for making unworthy people a priority in my life."

Friends make us who we are.



 

Attitude!

Having a Positive attitude makes a HUGE difference in your day.

I know that sometimes we just want to SCREAM and CRY and sometimes

we dont even know WHY.

And sometimes we need to scream or cry or do both.

Sometimes even throwing a pillow at a door or something makes you feel better.

Okay so i know that alot of my posts are about loving and losing...but hey im a teenage girl bare with me. please...

I am going to tell you about a time i got in a huge fight with a really close friend of mine and how now i realize that if i would have just have had a POSITIVE attitude we wouldnt have gotten in that big of a fight over NOTHING and we would still be close friends. I honestly regret losing this friend and i wish i could just tell them how sorry i am and how i wish it never ever ever ever ever happened but it did and i cant change it know.

It was a Sunday and i was texting my friend like always and my friend said something to me that really made me frustrated. because they were judging me based off of something someone else said about me and this person DIDNT even know me and i thought my friend KNEW the REAL ME. But apparently they didnt feel like they knew me enough to trust me and know that i was telling them the truth. They felt like they should trust someone who they hardly knew and who hardly knew me.
You cant tell me that you wouldnt be frustrated if this happened to you. 

Anyways in the end we didnt talk for MONTHS we didnt say hi to eachother when we saw one another and we didnt even talk when our other friends asked about it or wondered why we werent talking.

NO ONE knew except us..and i wish i could have done something to change it but its too late.

If your wondering yes we are talking again and we trust each other again.

Now, if i would have had a positive attitude and not gotten so mad at my friend we wouldnt have gotten into a fight and i wouldnt have lost one of my BEST FRIENDS.

MOVING ON.....

Have you ever had someone tell you that you ALWAYS look mad and you NEVER look happy...??

Well, I have and it made me SOOO SAD.

Because i really dont mean to and when one person says that about you you start to wonder if anyone else thinks that about you.

When this friend told me that i decided once and for all that i would do my absolute best to always

SMILE, BE ENERGETIC and have FUN.

ALWAYS BE POSITIVE.

I just want you to always do you best and dont do it for others do it for your self.

'' A SMILE IS NEARLY ALWAYS INSPIRED BY ANOTHER SMILE.''

''Your talent determines what you can do.

 Your motivation determines how much you are willing to do.

 Your attitude determines how well you do it.''

So in the end i hope you got something out of this post.

Sorry if it wasn't what you were expecting.

Friends make us who we are.