New Friends!

I have recently made a new friend who i absolutely adore.

And i know i can trust!

I told her things about me that i may have been embarrassed about but i knew that she wouldn't tell anyone

especially when i asked her not to!

I love this girl!

I know that she will always be there for me when i need someone to talk to about..

ANYTHING!

I know she cares because she was always making sure i was okay..and i want in to much pain

(have a sprained foot....yuck!)

She is amazing and i love her to pieces! She is so ADORBS!

Well, your probably wondering what this has to do with

THAT'S LIFE...

 And here it is...

I want you to know that to become close friends with someone new and getting to know that you can trust them with things that like no one else knows...

you have to move out of your comfort zone just a little step at a time..just be nice and fun to be around don't be totally and completely shy...let others know the REAL YOU!

To know them they have to know you!

I believe in you!

I did it and i was the shyest person ever...but now I'm more comfortable being well,

being ME!

And i wouldn't  have it any other way!

I'm going to be me and NO ONE can stop me!

I recently went to girls camp and i was just me and i wasn't afraid and honestly i was

TONS OF FUN BEING ME!

Some one once said to be that

When your shy your selfish because your keeping your self away from others.

Id admit it i am selfish and spoiled and sometimes a brat!

But no ones perfect and if i was still as shy as i use to be i wouldn't have been able to tell you that I'm a brat and selfish and what not..but i don't care what others think of me as long as i am happy i know someone will love me and want to be around me and i know i will always have my family...

So those of you who NEVER spend time with your family and hate when your mom dances in public when she clearly knows she cant dance don't say MOM STOP! Just join in have fun laugh don't let others control the way you act. Spend time with your family because when your friends ditch you your family will be there for you!

I'm not going to tell you what to do but really think about you life and who will be there for you in the end.!

Friends let us be who we are!

Don't Settle.

What is it about some guys...we cant get them out of our mind..no matter how many people tell you over and over...he sounds like a loser totally why do you even waste your time??

He isn't worth it..

Make him fight for you..don't just give into him...that's the truth...i know that when you like...really like a guy you don't listen to anyone even though you see what they are saying you still deny it..say no he has changed i have seen it...maybe so..but that still doest mean he is never going to go back to how mean and manipulative he use to be...Don't get me wrong sure some guys maybe can change..i just never have seen it..not with my dad or my moms guy friends or my sisters boyfriends...

they always fall back into what you don't like about them..because that's who they are. 

Maybe love can change some people and most of the time its just temporary
Most guys are immature and don't know what they want out of life they think they know what they want and once we help them get it they run away because it wasn't what they really wanted and you don't know what to do.

Guys never really completely change their is still some of the old them and you will never completely get rid of the guy they use to be.

Someone once asked me.
Why do you like him so much??
But before i could even answer my best friend covered my mouth and said Don't even get her started.

Thats what we all need. We all need that one special guy thats drives us crazy, but then you think of how much you love him and how much you just cant help but laugh when he does because you love his laugh and you cant help but smile when he talkes because you love the way he talks. And get butterflies everytime you look into his eyes...thats true love..thats what i want and thats what i am going to get.

Dont ever settle. there is someone out there who will do anything to be your everything.

Well that's all for today, i hope you all understand and hope its what you needed to hear.

Friends make us who we are.